The Heroine's Brigade

The Life of a Teenage Feminist

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Things that are creepy:

  • Persistence after someone has said NO or STOP, or has made it clear they are not interested in your advances
  • Invalidating someone’s “no”
  • Only stopping your advances when somebody informs you they are taken (you are telling this person their “no” alone is not enough, which means you do not respect them)
  • Asking “why” when somebody rejects your advances
  • Asking “why not” when somebody refuses to give you their phone number

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Girl:
*adjusts bra strap*
School:
That's inappropriate and distracting.
Boy:
*sits with legs spread apart, scratches balls, has underwear visible, takes off sweatshirt and reveals half of torso in the process*
School:
lol you're good.

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fuckyeahfeminists:

tw: rape, rape denialismmy-feminism:

gravelmonger:

my-feminism:

gravelmonger:

fucknorapeapologists:

gummogoth:

Help spread the truth:
source for the stats in the image:
http://communityvoices.post-gazette.com/opinion/the-radical-middle/27667—one-in-one-thousand-eight-hundred-seventy-seven
Department of Justice criminal victimization survey: http://www.bjs.gov/content/pub/pdf/cv11.pdf
World Health Organization’s data on violence and causes of death
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_causes_of_death_by_ratehttp://www.who.int/whr/2004/annex/topic/en/annex_2_en.pdf
Three cowardly and ideological fascists advocate sex-selective censorship : http://www.huffingtonpost.com/soraya-chemaly/an-open-letter-to-faceboo_1_b_3307394.html

Yes, because taking three universities (which is different from a college) and averaging them together is accurate. /sarcasm Think a little. -Brianna

Someone challenged Brianna’s world outlook, so being snarky is totally the best response instead of some simple investigation.

Here is the one out of four study:http://www.cops.usdoj.gov/pdf/e03021472.pdf
Keep in mind that rape is HIGHLY underreported especially on a college campus. Even more so for male victims.

If there is so much rape on campuses then why aren’t women reporting it? Seriously? Why?
And I only reblogged this mainly because I thought the persons response was pretty cheap and shitty.

• embarrassment and shame,• fear of publicity,• fear of reprisal from assailant,• fear of social isolation from the assailant’s friends,• fear that the police will not believe them,• fear that the prosecutor will not believe them or willnot bring charges,• self-blame for drinking or using drugs before the rape,• self-blame for being alone with the assailant, perhaps inone’s own or the assailant’s residence,• mistrust of the campus judicial system, and• fear that their family will find out.

I was raped while I was a student. It really fucking sucked, but reporting it and the aftermath sucked MORE. I honestly was traumatized more by the admin response, rather than felt better about what happened to me. Administrators don’t know how to handle it. Knowing what I know now from my experience and from working with other campus survivors, this is why people hesitate to report campus rape.
Many administrators are not trained on rape culture and trauma
A lot of schools would rather protect the schools reputation than punish a rapist
Reporting someone you know as your rapist (and/or someone popular on campus) will open you to retaliation/gossip on campus
A lot of people don’t want to “ruin” the lives of their rapist(s)
A lot of people struggle with identifying their experience as rape because we’re not educated about it - a lot of the time we only think about the “Stranger in the alleyway”phenomenon
We don’t trust the police (esp as a woman of colour, I can say that)
We know how shitty the court system is when it comes to rape cases anyway
Going through the process of reporting will trigger a long process of interviews, judicial cases
A lot of people have “less than perfect” histories and don’t want their past being revealed and their name dragged through the mud
While juggling a difficult semester, the last thing you want to do is to add another thing on your place (going through the judicial process)
People talk: you hear how shitty the school is at addressing rape, so then you dont want to go through a futile process.
Nothing ever fucking happens to the rapist.*
*clearly this isn’t always the case, but this happens an overwhemingly majority of the time 

fuckyeahfeminists:

tw: rape, rape denialism
my-feminism
:

gravelmonger:

my-feminism:

gravelmonger:

fucknorapeapologists:

gummogoth:

Help spread the truth:

source for the stats in the image:

http://communityvoices.post-gazette.com/opinion/the-radical-middle/27667—one-in-one-thousand-eight-hundred-seventy-seven

Department of Justice criminal victimization survey:
http://www.bjs.gov/content/pub/pdf/cv11.pdf

World Health Organization’s data on violence and causes of death

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_causes_of_death_by_rate
http://www.who.int/whr/2004/annex/topic/en/annex_2_en.pdf

Three cowardly and ideological fascists advocate sex-selective censorship : http://www.huffingtonpost.com/soraya-chemaly/an-open-letter-to-faceboo_1_b_3307394.html

Yes, because taking three universities (which is different from a college) and averaging them together is accurate. /sarcasm Think a little. -Brianna

Someone challenged Brianna’s world outlook, so being snarky is totally the best response instead of some simple investigation.

Here is the one out of four study:
http://www.cops.usdoj.gov/pdf/e03021472.pdf

Keep in mind that rape is HIGHLY underreported especially on a college campus. Even more so for male victims.

If there is so much rape on campuses then why aren’t women reporting it? Seriously? Why?

And I only reblogged this mainly because I thought the persons response was pretty cheap and shitty.

• embarrassment and shame,
• fear of publicity,
• fear of reprisal from assailant,
• fear of social isolation from the assailant’s friends,
• fear that the police will not believe them,
• fear that the prosecutor will not believe them or will
not bring charges,
• self-blame for drinking or using drugs before the rape,
• self-blame for being alone with the assailant, perhaps in
one’s own or the assailant’s residence,
• mistrust of the campus judicial system, and
• fear that their family will find out.

I was raped while I was a student. It really fucking sucked, but reporting it and the aftermath sucked MORE. I honestly was traumatized more by the admin response, rather than felt better about what happened to me. Administrators don’t know how to handle it. Knowing what I know now from my experience and from working with other campus survivors, this is why people hesitate to report campus rape.

  • Many administrators are not trained on rape culture and trauma
  • A lot of schools would rather protect the schools reputation than punish a rapist
  • Reporting someone you know as your rapist (and/or someone popular on campus) will open you to retaliation/gossip on campus
  • A lot of people don’t want to “ruin” the lives of their rapist(s)
  • A lot of people struggle with identifying their experience as rape because we’re not educated about it - a lot of the time we only think about the “Stranger in the alleyway”phenomenon
  • We don’t trust the police (esp as a woman of colour, I can say that)
  • We know how shitty the court system is when it comes to rape cases anyway
  • Going through the process of reporting will trigger a long process of interviews, judicial cases
  • A lot of people have “less than perfect” histories and don’t want their past being revealed and their name dragged through the mud
  • While juggling a difficult semester, the last thing you want to do is to add another thing on your place (going through the judicial process)
  • People talk: you hear how shitty the school is at addressing rape, so then you dont want to go through a futile process.
  • Nothing ever fucking happens to the rapist.*

*clearly this isn’t always the case, but this happens an overwhemingly majority of the time 

(via rapeculturerealities)

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whoneedsfeminism:

I need feminism beacause my mom spent her entire life raise her children and deal with the chores to the detriment of studies, passions or social life.  

I need feminism because my dad still doesn’t care, is always at work, and I don’t even know him.

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So, because some men have managed to sexualize stretchy yoga pants, that means stretchy yoga pants are now inappropriate/slutty/cause for “alarm.” Because the standards for what it’s okay for women to wear should be dictated by men’s libidos. Nearly every woman I have talked to about this — in the office, on Facebook, on Twitter — has echoed the sentiments of the women commenting on the GMP piece: we wear yoga pants because they are comfortable. Period. The suggestion that we A) wear them because we want sexual attention from men and B) that therefore they shouldn’t be worn in scenarios in which that attention would be “inappropriate” takes all the responsibility for controlling male lust off men and places it on women. And that is some bullshit.
 The Soapbox: Women Wear Yoga Pants Because They Are Comfortable, Not Because They Apparently Give You A Boner

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(Source: con-lit, via rapeculturerealities)